"Sounds exhausting," Kaya commented, shaking her head a little, "but in the end I think it all comes down to what you learned when you live in the times of your world. I had to learn some things too, as was expected of any girl in my tribe."

Healing if you could bend, cooking, preparing children, having them and being married yourself. These were things that came with being from the Northern water tribe.

"You're usually given power by being the daughter of the chief," Kaya said. "Otherwise, well, you do what your tribe expects. I was starting to see great change though, after the defeat of the fire nation. I hope now that if i go back to the Northern water tribe, I can teach girls new ways to protect themselves and strengthen the ties with each other and other people."